Relationships between men and women remain one of the most interesting experiences one could ever venture into. For women, in as much they wish to have that special man who will sweep them off their feet one day, they are bound to remain forever single not because of any spell cast on them but simply due to the very little things or attitudes they find themselves in. Relationship experts have tried all they can to list as many pointers that scare men away from women as possible but here is an encapsulation of these pointers into 5 reasonable lookouts.
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The Addiction To Chatting
Men typically have a different viewpoint on chats. They use them for logistics and are not as big on chatting as women. If you are constantly chatting men, it conveys a sense of neediness and that you have a lot of time on your hands. To start with especially, keep chats relatively short, and avoid chatting too much.
Creating Unnecessary Drama
Creating drama for no real reason can suggest that you are high maintenance. There’s a balance between reacting accordingly to something and blowing it way out of proportion. Being around someone creates or attracts drama can be really hard work and this is particularly off-putting for men.
Being Possessive And Doting
As soon as a man feels like he is being restricted from other things in his life that he enjoys, it will put pressure on the relationship and it probably won’t be long before he starts to lose interest and want out. A doting woman who wishes to control everything in a relationship including her man is most likely to be headed for disaster.
Putting All The Cost On The Man
If this has not been agreed beforehand and even expecting him to get you home can scare a man off and think he is wanted for money only. Always offer to pay even if he says no, at least you have offered. You are not dating an ATM machine. In every relationship there is the need for mutuality so, get some and stop putting all the cost on the man.
Not Having Any Outside Interests
Men are attracted to interesting women with passions, hobbies and things to talk about. You can only have these things if you engage in activities and interests outside of the relationship. As tempting as it is to want to spend all your time with a new man in your life, it’s so important that you keep doing all the things that you love because it makes you a far more interesting and enticing person to be with. It will also make you happier because you will feel like your life is more well-rounded.