Behind every successful man, there’s woman. Behind every successful marriage, there are obviously two people who have done some tremendous things together before deciding to tie the knot. Have you considered a “must-do” list before getting married or putting the ring on your finger? Maybe you should, as there are 9 things everyone needs to do before getting married.
Work on your promiscuity. The deadly blow to any marriage is adultery. Adultery destroys marriage. Do not cheat on your spouse
Anger is a normal emotion, but it’s important to deal with it in a positive way. Uncontrolled anger tells on your health and your relationships. Learn how to control your anger. Shot temper damages marriage.
Maturity comes with experience not age. Increase your level of maturity. Marriage is for the matured minds and not kids.
Love, they say doesn’t cost a thing. That may be true, but then how many women are ready to date or marry a man who is not financially stable? We all know the economic situation of our country and most women as a result, seek men who are financially stable. Is money an important factor in marriage? The answer is, yes. You need money to make your family work & be comfortable.
Trust your spouse at all time. If this is highly attended to, your marriage will do just fine. Do not marry a person you don’t trust.
Work on your Choice of partner. According to a research, 60% of most beautiful and handsome humans lacks intelligence; as a man you need a beautiful wife though, but when she can’t read her book or write her name you will surely remember this piece of mind someday. He or she will someday grow old and ugly. So, be informed.
Good character sustains marriage. Bad characters are consistently responsible for many broken homes. No wonder character is noticed as the block for building marriages. Work on your character, treat people equally.
8. HOW GOOD ARE YOU IN THE KITCHEN?
Some women are so poor in the kitchen. This has destroyed so many marriages. “Don’t marry a woman who can’t cook,” Pastor E. A. Adeboye said. “A girl who cannot cook will not be a good wife.” Ladies, go learn how to cook.
9. PRAY AND BE COMMITTED TO GOD
And finally, Prayer matters a lot in everything, be it Christian or Muslim. Commit yourself to your creator and you will succeed. Remember, he who finds a wife finds a good thing. Pray lot and God will guide and provide you with your rightful partner.